This super moist coconut cake is the perfect excuse to linger around the dinner table a little longer, enjoying some coffee and the company of friends and family.
(Thank you to NESCAFÉ Clásico for sponsoring today’s post and inspiring me to make the moment happen and reconnect with my friends over a sobremesa!)
We Brazilians usually don’t need any excuse to stay at the table for hours. After a good meal, there’s always dessert, and coffee, and digestif wines, and talking, laughing and sharing precious moments with our loved ones.
We don’t have a word for it in Portuguese, but in Spanish that is called “sobremesa“. The dictionary describes it as “sitting around the table after lunch or dinner”, but it is so much more than that. It is a lifestyle!
I don’t believe there is a word for it in English, mostly because Americans are not accustomed to that habit.
No wonder, as Americans are always in a hurry. It’s the whole “time is money” mentality that makes them eat their lunches at their desks, sucked into their monitors, so as to not waste a single minute.
I remember when Tim started at his job and when they told him his hours, he asked if there was an hour lunch break. They replied saying: “Not really. We all eat at our desks!”
When he told me that, I was flabbergasted! ?
In Brazil we take 2 hour lunch breaks and we savor every minute of it! Don’t even try to schedule a meeting between 12:30 to 2:30pm, because people really respect the social experience of lunch and nobody will be at the office.
And when you go out for lunch or dinner, the waiter only brings your check if you ask for it!
Every time my mom visits the US, she complains about that! She feels really rushed because American waiters will bring the check as soon as you put down your fork. “If I wanted to gobble something in a hurry, I would eat at home. Or go to a McDonald’s!”
I totally agree with her. America is definitely missing out on the habit of using food as an excuse to spend time together!
And before you say that doing sobremesa is the reason I’m on the chubby side, let me say you don’t really have to have anything indulgent. A nice cup of coffee will do!
I usually choose to have amazing Brazilian Moist Coconut Cake with my coffee! Oops! ???
These days, I don’t do sobremesa too much, since my family is far away in Brazil and it’s usually me and my husband.
But I had a pretty rough week. Last week ended up with lots of exciting possibilities, but they all fell through this week and I was feeling pretty lousy. So I baked a delicious cake that tastes like my childhood. And me and Tim enjoyed it with some cafezinhos – the Brazilian version of the hispanic “cafecito” – while talking about our weeks and just enjoying each other.
My coffee of choice? NESCAFÉ CLÁSICO! The leading coffee for Latinos in the United States. It is 100% pure coffee, made from a blend of selected coffee beans, carefully roasted to capture its full flavor and aroma. Not to mention it is very convenient, as I don’t have to deal with a french press/espresso maker/coffee filter/”enter a complicated form of making coffee here”.
And the best part? It goes amazing with a slice of cake!
Especially with this Brazilian Moist Coconut Cake. ?
The recipe is really simple and easy to follow. It’s a basic sponge cake that is moistened with a “sauce” made of coconut milk and sweet condensed milk. I guess you could call it the Brazilian version of a Tres Leches Cake.
The cake is then served cold! It is a staple at children’s birthday parties in Brazil! At those parties, the moist coconut cake is usually served already sliced, wrapped in aluminium foil! I guess that’s convenient, especially when children are involved, but I always found it to be extremely tacky! So I’m serving mine on a cake stand. Because presentation is everything, don’t you agree?
And, I have a surprise for you. I MADE A VIDEO!
You guys… seriously… my first video ever! Are you excited? Please don’t! I still have a lot to improve, but I had fun doing it. So, please don’t judge!
For the cake:
- 1 1/2 sticks of butter (about 6 ounces or 150g), softened
- 2 cups sugar
- 4 eggs, yolks and eggs separated
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
- 1/2 cup whole milk
- 1 (13.5 ounces) can coconut milk
- 1 tablespoon baking powder
- Pinch of salt
For the "sauce":
- 1 (13.5 ounces) can coconut milk
- 1 (14 ounces) can sweet condensed milk
- 2 cups coconut flakes
Recipe adapted for the "O grande livro da Palmirinha" cookbook (in Portuguese).